I am not the patient. I have spent 14 days in the hospital because a close relative is in critical condition and we tried to give her mental support. Hopefully she is getting discharged in 1-2 days but the medical caring will be life long. It also reminds me that life is fragile. You really need to enjoy life today, not tomorrow, not next month and definitely not next year. In the coming months and years, a lot of caring needs to come from her husband and her youngest son which is not working. Maybe it is God’s will when the wife cook and wash dishes for him, all he does is fold his arms claiming he was from the old school, wife supposed to be like a servant for life and when I complain that the husband need to help in the family, wife defended him, what now? The youngest son acts just like his father and worst. The mother also chose to spoil him. Now these two grown men need to take responsibility to take care of their mother and wife. I am hopeful but not optimistic. 我在醫院逗留了14天，我不是病人. 因為我的一位近親情況危急，我們盡力給予她精神支持。希望她能在 1-2 天內出院，但醫療照護將是終身的。這也提醒我，生命是脆弱的。你真的需要享受今天的生活，而不是明天，不是下個月，更不是明年。在接下來的幾個月和幾年裡，她的丈夫和她沒有工作的小兒子需要照顧她. 也許這就是天意吧，妻子為他丈夫終生做飯洗碗，他只是抱著雙臂說自己是老派大男人, 妻子應該一輩子像個僕人，而當我抱怨丈夫需要幫忙時, 妻子更為他辯護，現在怎麼辦？最小的兒子行為就像他的父親一樣，而且最糟糕的是母親也選擇了溺愛他。現在，這兩個成年男子需要承擔起照顧母親和妻子的責任。我充滿希望，但並不樂觀